Raymond Wielhouwer

Raymond Wielhouwer

Tuesday, April 9th, 1940 - Monday, April 13th, 2020
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Dateline Bordentown

Raymond Wielhouwer, passed away peacefully on Monday April 13 at his home with his loving family by his side. Born in Paterson NJ, Ray resident in Pompton Lakes, Pequannock and Marlton before moving to Bordentown in 2012.

An avid music and Drum Corp fan, he would never miss the opportunity to watch his two favorite Bands compete; The Hawthorne Caballeros Drum and Bugle Corps and the Bordentown Scotties.

Ray’s greatest joy in life was being surrounded by his family especially his grandchildren. He was deeply loved and will be forever remembered and missed.

The son of the late Gerard and Bessie Wielhouwer, he is predeceased by his brother, Douglas Wielhouwer, his is survived by his wife of 45 years, Patricia L. Wielhouwer, his daughters Joelle Wigmore (Timothy), Courtney ( Stephen) Rich, son, Darren Wielhouwer, grandchildren, Stephanie Callahan, Brandon Wigmore,Taylir Wielhouwer, Tabitha Wigmore, Bailey Wielhouwer, Lucas Wielhouwer, Conner Rich,Thomas Wigmore, Aiden Rich, Ryan Wigmore, a greatgrandson Chase Metzcher, his Brother, Paul (Helen) Wielhouwer and many nieces, nephews and friends.

Due to the current pandemic, a Memorial Service will be held for family and friends at a later date.

Arrangements are under the direct care and supervision of Robert L. Pecht, Bordentown Home for Funerals 40 Crosswicks St. Bordentown, NJ 08505. Please go to Ray’s Book of memories page at for future service information, or offer condolences to the family.
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Love Steve and Edna

Posted at 07:40am
That hardy laugh and big smile will be missed until we all meet again in a better place
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Sara Miller

Posted at 07:45pm
Sending comforting thoughts and endless love to your family at this very sad time, Sara Miller and Family

Jennifer Jenkins

Posted at 06:31pm
To Courtney and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Mr. Wielhouwer. He was such a lovely, sweet man. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Jen Jenkins

Chris -on behalf of your 21st Century Storage family

Posted at 06:40pm
To Darren and family, we are sorry for the loss of your father. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.
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Edna Rich

Posted at 12:11am
He was a gentle soul who truly loved his family and really enjoyed the talents of his grandchildren. He will be truly missed.

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