Nancy Kilmer

Nancy Jane Kilmer (Stack)

Saturday, September 12th, 1953 - Thursday, March 26th, 2020
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Nancy Jane (Stack) Kilmer passed away peacefully on Thursday March 26, 2020 at her home with her loving family by her side.

Nancy had an unmatched work ethic that she demonstrated at many jobs. Including working together with her family at The Fulfillment House in Yardville. By far her favorite work was as a teacher’s aide at Osolo Elementary in Elkhart.

Nancy enjoyed spending time with her family and making a home for them in Indiana and then in New Jersey. She loved gardening, being on the water, trips and concerts with friends. Nancy was a loyal Phillies fan and enjoyed watching games with John and her boys. Nancy had a heart for others and felt it was important to support organizations that served her community.

During her time at the Masonic Village, Nancy made friends in the staff and residents there. Upon her return home, Acacia Hospice cared for Nancy. The family wishes to convey their heartfelt thanks to all for every act of care and kindness.
The daughter of the late Carl and Laura Stack and in-laws Jack and Carol Kilmer, she is survived by her husband, John and two sons; Jared Kilmer (Brittany Wallrath fiancé) Westampton, and Walter Kilmer Columbus. Sisters; Susan Rockenbaugh (Steven d.) Betsy Kratzer (Danny), Sandra Zann (Tony), Brothers; Ronald (Carol Lee), Gregory (Sally) and Richard (Susan) Stack, all of Elkhart Indiana. Brother-in-law; Gregory (Peggy) Kilmer, Columbus and Peter Kilmer (Cinnamon Woods fiancé) Indianapolis, IN. Many nieces, nephews and friends.

Nancy fought breast (metastatic) cancer since 2008, and on 3/26/2020 it took her from this earth to her heavenly home. If she could, she would tell everyone to take care of yourselves now.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Breast Cancer Research Foundation (, Acacia Hospice ( or the local charity of your choice.

A Memorial Service will be held for family and friends at a later date.

Arrangements are under the direct care and supervision of Robert L. Pecht, Bordentown Home for Funerals, 40 Crosswicks St. Please go to Nancy’s memorial page at to make a donation in Nancy’s memory or to offer condolences to the family.
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Rene Lambert Olinghouse

Posted at 11:56am
John and family. We are sorry to hear of your loss. God Bless you all.
Mel and Rene(Hurley) Olinghouse
Goshen, IN

Jon Conner

Posted at 07:21pm
John, Jared and Walter,
We are so sorry for your loss, Nancy was a quite a remarkable woman, wife, and mother. One of my favorite childhood memories, made possible by Nancy, are the summers she rented the little basement cabin on Shavehead Lake. It was along time ago but I remember a lot of the “Stack Clan” assembling up on the lake for swimming, boating, volleyball and BBQ, in reality quality family time. All made possible because Nancy was our host.

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